How to Be Un-Retainable: Behave Like Dr. Troll
𝗡𝗼𝘁 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆 𝗶𝗻𝘁𝗲𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗵𝗮𝘀 𝘁𝗼 𝗯𝗲 𝘁𝗿𝗮𝗻𝘀𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝗮𝗹.
But many act this way (𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙞𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙣𝙩).
Many attorneys ask me for referrals to other experts
❌𝙉𝙊𝙏 my response: Pay me a finder's fee
✅My response: Here are 3 experts and their emails
Many experts who are starting out as me for advice
❌𝙉𝙊𝙏 my response: Pay me for 15 minutes of my time
✅My response: Here is my number, let's chat
Many LNCs message me to explain anesthesia topics
❌𝙉𝙊𝙏 my response: Pay me via Stripe invoice
✅My response: Here is the explanation to XYZ
𝙂𝙪𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙬𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙜𝙚𝙩 𝙘𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙣𝙚𝙭𝙩 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙣 𝙖𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙡𝙤𝙜𝙞𝙨𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙣𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙚𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙨𝙚𝙧𝙫𝙚 𝙖𝙨 𝙖𝙣 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙩❓
My takeaway from 3 years in this space:
• Network
• Be friendly
• Pay it forward
• Go that extra mile
• Provide added value
𝙄𝙩 𝙥𝙖𝙮𝙨 𝙤𝙛𝙛 𝙢𝙖𝙟𝙤𝙧 𝙙𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙨 𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙙𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚
Just don't be that angry troll
That sends ugly InMail DMs
... 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙠𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙬𝙝𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙧𝙚👿
𝘼𝙣𝙮 𝙨𝙪𝙜𝙜𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙨 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙩𝙨 𝙨𝙩𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙨 𝙨𝙥𝙖𝙘𝙚?